Let’s talk about Tara Sutaria. The person who is currently being subjected to abuse is Tara Sutaria. It is being said that she disrespected her boyfriend Veer. She got very close to him during the concert.
Why was AP Dhillon she acting so desperate during the concert?
AP Dhillon and Tara Sutaria released a music video in July. They worked together, and that music video was for a hit song called “Thodi Si Daaru”. And now, since concerts are happening, AP would naturally include this song during their concerts. So, Tara was invited to the concert that took place 15 days ago. And as the song started, Tara came onto the stage with some alcohol. AP and Tara performed, and then she left. A similar performance was seen at this recent concert as well. If you look at these performances side by side, it’s clear that AP and Tara are repeating the same steps.
When the song starts, Tara enters the stage. After that, all the steps they use to dance with each other seem to be part of the performance. Because the steps from the music video, the way they interact with each other, are what they are trying to replicate on stage. And that’s normal. Concerts also have performances, and rehearsals are conducted. So, so far, there was no problem with their performance. As soon as the performance ended, Tara Sutaria was supposed to get off the stage.
At that moment, she went to hug AP Dhillon to say goodbye. Perhaps AP misunderstood the gesture. Because of this, he decided to give her a peck-on-the-cheek kiss between the forehead and the cheek. And you can see Tara’s reaction at that very moment: she recoiled. And she started saying no. She said “no” and “no”. Now, it’s not clear what she was refusing. She was offered a drink.
That’s why AP Dhillon was requesting her to sing some lines into the microphone. Since she is also a singer, she might have been asked to sing. She was refusing that request. He could have rejected anything. But look at his body language. He recoiled. Even the kiss seemed unexpected to him. People didn’t like this moment because Tara Sutaria is currently dating Veer. Both of them are very vocal about their relationship. They have done everything, be it appearing together in the media, celebrating festivals, or meeting each other’s families. And they formalized their relationship in a very short time. And yet, many have the opinion that this shouldn’t have happened.
It was as if they were acting on stage. But despite that, one thing that became evident is that AP was not very comfortable with Tara at the concert held 10-15 days ago. But in this recent concert, there was a specific frame where AP Dhillon was holding Tara Sutaria by the waist. And while this scene was happening, Veer’s frame was placed next to it. Now, it’s not clear whether this exact moment happened during the scene. But in that frame, Veer was saying something to a crew member. And it seemed like he was expressing some kind of disapproval.
Judging by Veer’s hand gestures, it seemed like he was saying something that wasn’t part of the performance. Veer was only included in this particular frame. Don’t assume that everything is fair every time. Last time, when the Shreya Kalra controversy arose, it wasn’t fair either. But in Tara’s case, she is not being wrongly accused. Because she is being abused for someone else’s actions.
One more question that should be raised, which people are not discussing less, is about A.P. Dhillon, who was holding the microphone. He is also not a new artist.
One more question that should be raised, which people are not discussing less, is about A.P. Dhillon, who was holding the microphone. He is also not a new artist.
Where are the cameras? What do the crowd see?How does social media react?This question is also being raised about A.P. Dhillon because when one’s partner is standing in the audience, doesn’t a little distance become a responsibility? I mean, you can ignore this question.
Tara Sutaria’s Reaction
But try to change the role of A.P. Dhillon in this question. What if the same thing had happened to A.P. Dhillon’s own partner? If he himself was standing in the audience watching an international singer or celebrity perform, and his partner was someone else, coming so close, hugging, kissing, would he have said that it was normal? And if not, shouldn’t he have shown a little responsibility here? Well, that’s a question because sometimes things that seem normal on stage, when seen from a distance or through a camera, create a different perspective.
A different perception is created. So I think this issue shouldn’t be limited to them or Veer. The question should also be raised about those who, knowing that a relationship is at risk, have extended that time.
However, this question is not to make AP a villain. It’s just, “Should there be any extra responsibility?” And if you think there shouldn’t be, try reversing the roles.
And then ask yourself, “Would you feel comfortable with your partner?” I think you’ll find the answer. However, social media has also brought a lot of drama to this case. They have either mocked Veer’s silence or pitied him. Maybe Veer is realizing. Relationships are often not what they seem from the outside. Maybe Veer and them have discussed this beforehand. Maybe Veer considered it a professional space
. Maybe they didn’t intentionally cross any boundaries. Social media wanted a story. The story came, and it sold. But the saddest part of this whole incident is not that they went on stage and IP Dhillon hugged her. The saddest part is that we don’t judge relationships on the same scale. If the boy is silent, then he is poor. If the boy reacts, then he is insecure. If the girl does something, then she is either completely blamed, or blindly defended. When do people choose the middle path? The same path where both the intention and the effect are often displayed simultaneously.